Thank you very much for your kind concern regarding to The Japan Earthquake/Tsunami Crisis occurred more than 100days ago. It's been still devastating effects on all Japanese people, even someone who lives outside of Japan, like me....the beloved country that I am very much proud of.... has been experiencing a massive difficulty inthis crisis and Japanese people are suffering or living under some restricted conditions.....however, the people in Japan are showing to the world the greatest strength of humanity, considering others and helping and supporting each other with spiritual manner.  So many heart warming text messages encouraged me to go through with this difficult period, thank you very much.

My friends and their families in Sendai had lost their houses and lost their loved ones, however, they have kept showing us their integrity to support and help each other at most difficult times.  This phrase has become common among them to create the harmony.

'If scrambling, not enough for everybody. If sharing, it remains plenty for everyone.' 

「 奪い合えば足りぬ。分け合えば余る。」

                    にんげんだもの 相田みつを より

My idea of 'perfect world' is to accept our differences as our uniqueness and respect each other as same human beings. The strong protects weak, the rich suppots under privileged. For us to live and co-exist in harmony.

Anju x

 

 **Elder Special***

I personally (or I can say that most Japanese people are....) have a great respect for the elderly citizens......I mean grandma and grandpa.....with thier efforts created this world and they have made their history. Be thankful.

Gentle rubbing.....as their bones are fragile and sometimes britle, but still gently rubbing their skin do them good....it enhances their blood circulation and immune system far greater and certainly gives a happy lift.....so happy mind, body and soul. : )

If you ever think of this 'rubbing massage' for your parents or grand parents, let me know : ) 

 

Holiday notice - 28/Jan/12 - 19/Feb/12 Sorry, I am in Japan, so not available.

Proudly speaking with Japanese accent on....lol :)

I'm from 21hours flight away, Japan....experiencing some cultural differences living here in London, England for several years, working as a researcher, a tour guide and a body/massage therapist. Juggling 3 defferent jobs together, meeting different people from diffrent back ground, having a london life...lol!? I love food, both eating out and cooking......also I love watching moving films that make me feel wonderful to be alive as a human........and yes, TV dramas.....i jsut love them......if someone's dream life can be eating & watching TV/films.....I just can't wait for my retirement!!!....lol...!!!!

Why there is no reference check of the landloads???

In Japanese estate situations are very culturally biased and seem very peculiar to compare to here, in England. We must pay 1 month gratitude…meaning 1 month rent for the landlords, another 1 month for estate agents, 1 month deposit and 1 month rent in advance……..so you need at least 4 months rent up front when you move to the new house……yes, serious money!! Not only that, you need a guarantor which normally your mum or dad to secure your payments for the landlords/estate agencies……oooops……especially, if you are a girl, you are nothing in Japan, nobody thinks that you are credible, but your dad/mum is…….so, sorry to say that if you are alone……no parents to guarantee your payments, you are almost impossible to make a contract to rent a room. Generally speaking, most rooms are quite similar to a studio flat here in London, it consists of a bedroom, small kitchen, small bathroom, however, if you are in the cities like Tokyo or Osaka, you can find ‘Bedsit’ style old fashioned accommodation without bathrooms which is not so common nowadays…..you go to the ‘Bathhouse’ called ‘Sento’ (Public bath)…….it is nostalgic…ahhhhh…my student years in Tokyo……I lived in this kind of ‘Bedsit’ without bathroom in the really central of Tokyo and I used to go to the bath house almost everyday after the Uni. The bath house was closed by 24:00 at midnight, so when I came home late, it was a rush and dash to there….lol…if it’s closed…or end of the month I went skint…..normally I was……lol…., I washed my hair by the basin at home……..I paid around £150/m for my tiny, old bedsit…….good old days!

The estate situation in London is totally different…..it’s always a gamble……you go for a viewing, then decide to pay a deposit, then make a contract….let’s say for a year……by then you don’t know or never met with your landlords, so keep crossing your fingers that they are at least decent people who has common sense and social skills…….lol……..or sometimes they are total psycho with no social skills or even consideration…….the landloads from hell…….

They ask you some good references from your boss, current landlord…..but you get nothing, no information about your landlords…..they instantly have become a ‘Big Brother’ to you…….yes, you are just a tiny weeny bug….easily squashed by them…. called a ‘tenant’……..according to my experiences, (after went to housing association bureau, citizen’s advice bureau and shelter……..nothing really helped unless you have tons of money to fight in the court…..their advice was to get out…..easily done if you are willing to lose another deposit over for not fighting with them…….I know there are ‘The deposit scheme’…..but all they can do is to tell them that not legal to confiscate a deposit……if they are still not returning your deposit, final answer is to go to court……..so many of us do give up and let go…a deep sigh…….) this country’s housing laws are more likely to in favour of the landlords, not the tenants. The tenants have to put up their Big Brother like behaviours, just think of the future references not going to pot for the next moving….but yet, whatever the landlords behave disgustingly, appallingly and inhumanely, their next tenants will never know for well…..at least for a month…….then a horror story keeps going on…….la,la,la land…we are living in……lol…!!??

My land load is a peeping Tom, he had no boundaries……he comes into my garden without my permission, use the garden for his beloved Chihuahua’s toilet……which just looks like a skinny chick with big eyes…….and barking and barking all day and night……..my garden is covered by this little pooch’s poo with thumb big flies buzzing all day long…..so my flatmate and I stopped hanging our washings in the garden for well…..nearly 1 year????? we stopped going out to the garden for …1 year!!! but stil paying for the garden for more than a year…LOL……it’s like a joke!!! My landlord has much larger garden in the back……my garden is like a patio….very tiny…..but I thought much better idea to have a garden for reading and resting in the sun shine for a sunny days……but he is using it for the toilet for his beloved pooch……and we are paying for this……we talked to him thousands of times, but he goes,’ Weeeell, is there any evidence? Must be cats, a bird,even!’…..’Bird’??? Are you really got a higher education????? Last time we took some pictures of his pooch doing in our garden, happily…..well…..lol…when we showed him, ‘Weeeell, ****(his beloved pooch’s name) has own its brilliant mind which I can not control over every minutes of a day…..’…..not even say SORRY???  What you had learnt in the kindergarten???? You say sorry, if you done wrong to other people!!!!!! It’s a basic human, social skills needed to learn to live in society………a deep sigh…..he comes into our house when we are out, misplacing the things in the house….(we need CCTV to catch him!!)….my flatmate and my underwear missing…..the next door neighbour reported him peeping her flat from the garden which he does often to us…..he shouts and throws a thing to his wife….not maintaining our house….asked to fix the door and etc over 2 years ago, it’s never done yet………and more and more…….we need to keep buying a lotto to escape from this dire situation……..it’s not good for our mind, soul…lol…HELP!!

It’s really hard to live with ‘Basil Fawlty’(am I spelling right?) acted by John cleese……even I think of this British drama outstanding and absolutely love it…….better to just watch and laugh over the other people suffer by Mr Basil Fawlty’s real malignant narcissistic behaviours, anti-social skills and non sense than living with it in life!!!!!!!  Why there is no reference check of the landlords?? If someone put up the free checking site on line, she/he will be a real British hero to salute……….LOL…LOL….LOL…..!!??

Posted 30 weeks ago

Why this is happening here? Rougue traders...lol....

Why is this happening??? My friend hired a builder to fix the leaking from upstairs…..he seemed good for a while and he suggested her to change the plaster of the ceilling, so ripped them off….now she can see insulation packed in her ceilling….and soon a mice comes in…..

She screamed on top of her voice when a little mice came down from the hole of the ceilling and said ‘Hello’ to her….she was on the bath tub……she screamed, panicked, got out from the bath tub…naked…..slipped on the bath room floor………wow….luckily….just a bump on her head, so she tried to get up…..’Ahhhhhh!!!’…..poor her…..her back was gone…..

This happened 2 years ago…..she called me for a help…..she had to in bed for whole 3 days to recover from her frozen back……too much pain to go to the toilet….poor thing!……..now her back is Ok, she is trying to walk in the pool to prevent it………she can now laugh about it…..yes, it’s been 2 years…..but her ceilling stil has a big hole……

Her builder had a broken heart and he became depressed…..when she calls him to fix it, he goes…’No, I ca not get up….I am so sad!!’……….it’s been 2 years now…..lol………!!!

I have never experience nor heard about this in japan….but sorry to say that but I hear this all the time here in London..why???? please tell me why???? Anybody???
lol…..lol……

The clinic I am using for is now suffering from this situation…..the owner has been so patient to the builders/plumbers, who sometimes show up, sometimes no show….they promised him to finish the job done in 3weeks time…it was end of April….now June…….no hot water……job is not properly done……why?????? I know couple of builders who did good jobs in other premises……..but hits time, even they are lazying around……I don’t know why????

So, May, June…I am almost working as a tour guide or working at the office……not giving many massage treatments as usual…..my regular clients keep texting me when the new treatment rooms are ready………..yes, ready now and new!!….but still little plumbing situation for shower…..lol…….!!

Posted 31 weeks ago
Posted 31 weeks ago

Tension....attention....lol...

I have been so tired and getting noticed that I have loads of tensions around my shoulders……I take care of others tension, pain for living, but sometimes my attention to myself or my body comes to last….lol…..are’t we all?

If my family members and friends say that they have stiff shoulders, I might say…well…’You work too much, get some restful sleep! Get a day of and feet up!’…lol…it’s alwasy easy to say to the other people….right?….but the truth is that…..the people around you might say….’ No, I am OK…..it’s nothing’ or’Yeah, will do’…….YEAH…someday!! Someday might not be coming soon in the future and we all proudly show our stiff upper lip with stiff shoulders…lol….and continue living as if nothing wrong…….lol…lol..!!

Why??? I feel why my family or my friends do that? Stop and just take a rest….go easy……..whereas if my family and friends suggested me to do so….like taking a day off, relaxing…….I go…..well…..’ I am OK!’ Why we do that???

My flatmate was so concerned me working through a few months, no day offs, no holidays…..lol…..just waiting my prince on the white horse (Really?? I don’t feel any attraction regarding to the white thights though…lol..!?) someday will appear in front of me saying, ‘Lady, take my hand, let’s go to holiday!!’……..of course I will…..free holiday, free transport…’the horse’, right?…lol….jow earth friendly…lol…..anyways, it’s like a dream unless to win the lottery…….which I always forget to buy…lol…..living as if..la la la land…lol…!!

My tension needs some attention….so my colleagues gave me some massage…..but my stuborn stiff shoulders goes too far……..now I am having a tension headache…..little bit of stretch here and there…..I need a good soak in the aroma bath tonight!!……….and a day off!!…lol……!?

Posted 31 weeks ago
 
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